net-libs/nodejs: Revert dev-libs/openssl-1.1* dep change

net-libs/nodejs: Revert dev-libs/openssl-1.1* dep change

With openssl-1.1.1a I see lots and lots of test failures that I do not see with
1.1.0* -- these reflect actual errors in using crypto functions.

While there, resolve an implicit dependency on net-dns/c-ares that was
missed in the 8, 9, 10 and 11 branch version bumps.

Fixes: 64bc534bf4412e0088839c628ff79fa456ae60bb
Bug: https://bugs.gentoo.org/670574
Package-Manager: Portage-2.3.52, Repoman-2.3.12
Signed-off-by: Jeroen Roovers <jer@gentoo.org>